"I'm a 26-year-old Gen Z woman who is most comfortable communicating via WhatsApp and Instagram. At 61, my aunt just squeaks in as a young baby boomer. She came of age in an era when mobile phones, social media, and dating apps didn't exist. Nevertheless, she is one of my favorite people to turn to when I want dating advice."
"When my aunt sees I am being indecisive, she often tells me, "Do what you feel like doing." At first, this advice was annoying to hear, as I wanted more explicit guidance. Now I understand that she doesn't want to push me if she thinks I am not ready, giving me time and space to reflect and expand on my motivations before taking the initiative."
At 26, a Gen Z woman relies on her 61-year-old aunt for dating advice despite a 35-year age gap. The aunt responded to seven WhatsApp voice messages sent between 9 and 11 p.m., four about a new crush, and worried when she thought something terrible had happened. The niece communicated excitement about following the crush on Instagram and other meeting details. The aunt balances encouragement and restraint, often saying "Do what you feel like doing," allowing time for reflection while offering bolder feedback when she senses shyness or hesitation. That blend helped the niece gain clarity about a summertime crush and find closure.
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