The author grapples with the disparity in financial situations between themselves and their sibling, stressing concern about future dependency and the dynamics of their relationship. They question whether they should preemptively communicate financial boundaries to their sibling, whom they feel is responsible for their own lack of stability. The advice given emphasizes reflecting on one's feelings before addressing the issue, and to consider whether the intent is genuinely to help or to express long-standing resentments.
You may be putting the cart before the horse here. Sure, there are signs that your sibling isn't doing a stellar job handling their finances, and you might even be right that there's a good chance they'll hit you up for money down the road.
Are you truly trying to get ahead of a potential problem, or are you hoping to vent to them about your resentments?
Your sibling has plenty of time to turn their lives around, but there is no indication they are interested in doing so.
It’s important to reflect on your own feelings and motivations before addressing this potentially sensitive issue with your sibling.
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