"That's very kind, and I would be so grateful, but there are many things on there that are expensive or fancy because it was a wish list! By no means do I expect anyone to spend $300 on an automatic soothing bassinet or $150 on a nice chair to support my back pain! I often just use the list as a reference so I can try to find secondhand pieces instead."
"I am excited, but also a bit conflicted. I've heard plenty of people complain that one shouldn't have a baby shower for a second child because it can be greedy and selfish. I am trying to keep it as more of a baby sprinkle and focus on it being an excuse for friends and family to gather and have a fun time."
Expectant parent anticipates a second daughter and both families plan a baby shower to celebrate a missed first shower and prior miscarriages. An online registry was created as a wish list and as a reference for thrift shopping, but some items are expensive and guests now want to purchase directly. The parent worries about appearing greedy or obligating loved ones. Options include creating two separate lists (practical items and wish-list splurges), removing a public registry entirely, or delegating gift guidance to a close relative who can suggest general categories like diapers, books, or onesies.
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