"It is absurd if you think about it, that one single person, even the most wonderful person in the world, can be your lover, your soulmate, your co-parent, forever. We desperately need to restore community and restore physical institutions and organizations. That alone won't save marriage. But I think it will take the burden off."
"Research suggests its benefits show up in your physical and mental health, but it might not seem like it when you're buried in the second job of managing a household. With greater social acceptance of a variety of lifestyle choices, many people, especially young women, are thinking twice before tying the knot."
Marriage has evolved significantly from its historical origins as a real estate transaction to a modern institution carrying heightened expectations. Contemporary society expects spouses to serve simultaneously as lovers, soulmates, and co-parents indefinitely. Research demonstrates marriage provides physical and mental health benefits, yet managing household responsibilities alongside work creates substantial strain. Younger generations, particularly women, increasingly question marriage's necessity given greater social acceptance of diverse lifestyle choices. Experts suggest restoring community institutions and physical organizations could reduce the burden placed on individual relationships, though such measures alone cannot resolve marriage's fundamental challenges in today's context.
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