"I'm a married father with a lovely family. I've always been the more sexual person in our relationship, and that gap has widened over time. Other than the first few months of our relationship and during pregnancy, she hasn't shown much desire for sex. Meanwhile, my passion for her just continues to increase. She's gorgeous and has an incredibly sexy body."
"When I try to bring this up, she swears off any fetishes and acknowledges I'm extremely generous in bed and that she typically orgasms multiple times. Upon measuring, it turns out I'm about average length at 5.5 inches, but my girth is quite exceptional at 5.6 inches. Statistically, it seems unlikely that a previous partner was much thicker, but very likely longer. Would that difference really make a significant difference in her pleasure and overall experience during sex?"
A married man experiences increasing sexual desire while his wife shows little spontaneous interest outside early relationship and pregnancy periods. Attempts to discuss the gap prompted internet-driven speculations about fetishes or larger past partners. The husband measured himself and found average length (5.5 inches) and notable girth (5.6 inches), making greater past girth unlikely but past length possibly greater. The couple's conversations about desire and past partners are tense and evasive. Low spontaneous desire is more plausibly linked to stress, parenthood, career pressures, hormonal or relational factors than to current partner size, and nonjudgmental communication and professional help can help.
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