The author reflects on the emotional turmoil of a divorce, feeling compelled to seek companionship through online dating just six months post-separation. Fearing loneliness, she quickly entered a new relationship without addressing her individual healing process, leading to further dissatisfaction. While dating apps provided a temporary distraction, they intensified her feelings of isolation, as she found herself treating dating like an interview rather than experiencing authentic connections. Ultimately, she realizes the importance of prioritizing self-care and healing after a significant life change like divorce.
When faced with the pain of my divorce, I rushed into dating rather than prioritizing my personal healing, leading to further feelings of loneliness.
I felt like I was interviewing men instead of sharing genuine connections, which highlighted the struggle of using dating apps as a coping mechanism.
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