"The concept we decided, which we call "the Big Four," on is simple but ingenious: We "assign" out names Secret Santa-style, and each person puts together a gift box for their giftee with one thing the person needs, one thing they want, one thing that reminds you of them, and one thing in their favorite color. I have been doing this with my friends for two years now, and this year was even better than the last."
"If you love the idea of trying this gift exchange method with your friends, here's exactly how you can make it happen this holiday season. This method turns out so well with my friends because we're all super clear about how it will work. If you also want to give it go, establish a spending limit early on that works for everyone."
College friends created a 'Big Four' gift-exchange where each person assembles a gift box containing one thing the recipient needs, one thing they want, one thing that reminds the giver of them, and one thing in the recipient's favorite color. Names are assigned Secret Santa-style, either by drawing from a hat or using an online generator. The group sets a spending limit—commonly $50—to keep gifts affordable and equitable. The format ensures everyone receives a thoughtful, budget-friendly package and encourages creativity and personalization rather than simple wish-list exchanges. The tradition has been repeated successfully for multiple years.
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