"He has recently discovered that he enjoys just kind of rubbing my head and running his fingers through my very short hair. He says it's soft and very nice. The other night, he actually ejaculated from doing nothing but running his hand around the back of my head. It's made the whole thing weird to realize he's sexualized it that much."
"Well, it seems like Edward went from zero to ejaculation in no time at all. So I understand why the letter writer is taken aback. To go from "he says it's soft and very nice," to him coming is quite the surprise. My general advice here is: If you can make a guy come that easily, keep doing it. If only they were all so easy to trigger."
A 36-year-old woman got a buzz cut because of scalp issues and ease of marking. Her husband of nine years discovered he enjoys rubbing her head and running his fingers through her very short hair. One night he ejaculated after only running his hand around the back of her head. She feels surprised and unsettled by how sexualized the action became, and is uncertain how to reconcile her oddness with his pleasure. Men can sometimes reach orgasm from non-genital stimulation through intense arousal, sensory sensitivity, psychological associations, or conditioned responses. Couples benefit from clear communication about comfort, boundaries, and consent.
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