A 47-year-old man nearing divorce questions the emotional intensity of his relationship with a woman he loves. While she expresses deep feelings of missing him, he feels less urgency. Concerns arise about her emotional dependency being potentially smothering. There is a suggestion for premarital counseling before considering marriage to address these dynamics. Another correspondent seeks help with a fear of heights related to living in a high-rise building and is advised to use waist-high plants to alleviate anxiety. A friendship is also in question due to perceived behavioral changes.
Her discomfort at being apart could eventually become smothering. She's obviously emotionally needy. Although you have discussed marriage, please be sure the two of you have premarital counseling before proposing anything more than a warm friendship.
Consider installing some waist-high plants in front of the patio railing. This may allow you to enjoy your view without your knees wobbling. If you try this, do not look directly down.
It makes me wonder if our friendship is slowly going away. Throughout our friendship, we have always joked and laughed together, but I'm sensing changes now.
Your lady friend is telling you may seem like a protestation of devotion, but it could instead be a red flag.
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