
"Your husband's son needs to get a storage unit (and possibly a more expedient divorce attorney). His life may be marked by upheaval because of the divorce, but it would be wise for him to figure out a feasible plan for his belongings. It sounds like he has a significant amount of stuff. He may need to downsize. He has options, but you and your husband might have to force the issue."
"You write that your husband seems OK with everything. It's time to have a clear conversation about your differences. Reiterate that this is not the way you want to live, ask him if he can understand where you're coming from, and then get his take on it. If he thinks it's no big deal, ask him to say more about that. And then see if you both can come up with a solution that works for both of you."
An adult son undergoing a prolonged divorce has been storing equipment, tools, bikes and more in his father's home, filling the garage, attic, shed and basement and preventing normal use of the space. The couple initially permitted storage out of sympathy, but the volume has become excessive and the son often brings in items when one spouse is not home. The son should secure offsite storage, consider downsizing and possibly obtain faster legal counsel. The couple should have a clear conversation about boundaries, choose solutions like reclaiming zones or eviction, and refuse any additional items.
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