I Try to Stay Out of My Son's Time With His Dad. But I'm Hearing Things About the House Over There That Give Me Pause.
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I Try to Stay Out of My Son's Time With His Dad. But I'm Hearing Things About the House Over There That Give Me Pause.
"Our son is 6, so he's not the most reliable narrator. After a recent weekend, he said, "Daddy fell through the floor!" I asked Theo about it, and he said, "Kids exaggerate, I was working on the flooring, and he was worried I would fall in." But I don't know if I believe him, and the house has always been a flashpoint between us."
"As of five years ago, it needed: a new roof, a new boiler, repairs to foundation cracks, drainage for a wet basement/mold issues, rewiring in the upstairs, replacement of the subflooring ,and possibly joists in a load bearing wall from long-term plumbing leaks. Property taxes went up unexpectedly, and it was a nightmare. Theo had his heart set on keeping it in the divorce, so I got a lot of our liquid assets, and he got the house."
A co-parent expresses concern that the other parent's house is unsafe and inaccessible for inspection. The six-year-old child reported that 'Daddy fell through the floor' and mentioned 'rain indoors,' prompting suspicion. The house was purchased as a fixer-upper and previously required extensive repairs: roof, boiler, foundation, drainage, rewiring, subfloor and joists. An inspector understated the needed work. The father took the house in divorce and has been doing DIY repairs, obtaining a certificate of occupancy and hosting weekend visits. The co-parent wonders how to verify hazards and protect the child's safety without access to the home.
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