Psychology says people who are intellectually curious but socially selective aren't antisocial - they've simply reached a level of self-awareness where they'd rather be alone than accommodate conversations that require them to shrink their thinking - Silicon Canals
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Psychology says people who are intellectually curious but socially selective aren't antisocial - they've simply reached a level of self-awareness where they'd rather be alone than accommodate conversations that require them to shrink their thinking - Silicon Canals
"Research led by Julie Bowker found that people who withdraw from socializing for non-fearful, autonomous reasons don't experience the negative outcomes typically associated with social withdrawal. In fact, her study was the first to link a form of social withdrawal, called 'unsociability,' with a genuinely positive outcome: creativity."
"Motivation is what matters. We need to understand why someone is pulling back from social situations to understand whether the effects are harmful or beneficial."
Many individuals feel pressured to conform to social norms favoring crowded gatherings, leading to misconceptions about their social preferences. Research indicates that not all social withdrawal is negative; some individuals prefer solitude for positive reasons. A study by Julie Bowker highlights that those who withdraw for autonomous reasons can experience benefits such as increased creativity. Understanding the motivation behind social withdrawal is crucial in distinguishing between harmful and beneficial outcomes.
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