"Your son is in the exact same position as so many young adults today. As a professor who loves talking to her students-a large majority of whom are 20 to 25-I know just how much COVID has taken away from their ability to connect with people. So, there have to be other young adults in your area who are also looking to widen their social circles."
"The thing is, though, like you hint at here, it has to be his decision, and you haven't mentioned how he views his social life or isolation. As different as it may feel to many of us, online communities and friendships are real. He may not have a strong desire right now to get offline and out into the world-and may be happy connecting with his friends through online gaming."
A 24-year-old son was outgoing in childhood but became socially limited after moving during middle and high school. A college move back to the East Coast coincided with COVID, leading to remote study, canceled clubs, and prolonged isolation. He has worked from home for three years, spends hours on online games, and rarely goes out, prompting parental concern about forming long-term relationships. Many young adults experienced similar pandemic-related losses of social connection. Decision-making about pursuing offline social life must remain with the individual. Online communities can provide real friendships, and a casual conversation can reveal readiness for support or in-person activities.
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