My Sister Asked Me For a Massive Favor. My response might ruin our relationship forever.
Briefly

Being named as a legal guardian can place someone in a challenging situation. The request originated from a sister who faces concerns about her children's future if something were to happen to her. The potential guardian enjoys the niece and nephew but fears the commitment due to personal circumstances, including a job that requires travel and the poor health of their own parents. Not wanting to step into full-time parenting, the individual must weigh their obligation against the lacking options for guardianship. Considering alternatives within the family could alleviate the burden.
You have to accept certain obligations, even if they are stressful. You're a better option than the alternatives for guardianship.
You're better than a pair of mean old drunks, unhealthy parents, or a brother in prison. Accept your role in the family.
While you might not want the responsibility, societal obligations often require individuals to step up in difficult family situations.
Your sister might have friends who could take on the guardianship role more effectively, so consider suggesting them.
Read at Slate Magazine
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