"She told me she was only telling our parents and a few trusted family members and asked me to help her keep the news secret until after the baby is born! I knew immediately that this was because of our older sister "Ronnie." Ronnie and her husband have struggled with infertility for years. After 10 miscarriages, Ronnie has reached a point where she will not be"
"Harper's pregnancy is her business-it's her choice who she wants to tell about it, and when. Maybe she wants to enjoy her happy news (assuming she is happy about it) for as long as possible before dealing with Ronnie's potential feelings about it. In any case, while I know it's an awkward situation-and it feels weird to know something important about your sister that your other sister doesn't know-I do think you should probably leave it to Harper to share the news as she sees fit."
Harper and her husband are expecting and asked that the news be kept secret until after the baby is born, informing only parents and a few trusted relatives. Their older sister Ronnie and her husband have struggled with infertility for years, enduring ten miscarriages and avoiding pregnant women and babies when possible. Harper plans to forgo a baby shower out of respect for Ronnie. A family member considers telling Ronnie and urging her to accept the situation, but the decision about disclosure belongs to Harper. Respecting Harper's choice allows her private joy while acknowledging Ronnie's pain and the need for sensitivity.
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