"Easy: It's totally fair for Andy to switch spots until Andy stops tormenting his younger brother. I would also explain to Andy that this is for the family's betterment. Make him feel like it's less of a punishment and more his duty to help his brother survive this ordeal. And ensure that it's temporary-let him know he'll get the top bunk back once Jack gets comfortable again."
"I was a young kid who believed monsters were growling in my closet, slithering in the basement, and creeping under my bed. (Thanks, Poltergeist!) Still, I was left to fend for myself at night. For years, I was made to feel wimpy and annoying by my parents. It's tough to convince an over-anxious kid that they're being silly because-monsters or no monsters-their fears are very real."
Parents have two sons, Andy, 7, and Jack, 5, who share a bunk bed. Andy convinced Jack that a monster lives under the lower bunk, and Jack remains frightened despite parents' reassurances and clearing the space. Parents propose switching bunks so Jack sleeps on top, but Andy resents losing the coveted top spot. Temporary reassignment of bunks is fair until Andy stops tormenting his brother. Explain the change as a family-duty rather than punishment, and reassure both boys that the top bunk will be returned once Jack feels comfortable. Validate Jack's fears and avoid dismissing them as silliness.
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