"I'm glad that Sam has you and your husband in his corner, and that he's been doing so much better since coming to live with you. It's hard for me to believe that he's totally "fine" after your parents kicked him out. I definitely see the case for offering therapy, and perhaps bringing him to a couple of sessions so long as he isn't firmly opposed to the idea."
"I think it's very difficult to force anyone to go to therapy, let alone get something out of it, if they're not ready. It would require hard work on his part. It might be quite painful, even if it eventually helps with healing. I do think it could be very worthwhile, but Sam needs to be ready for it-or at least somewhat open to it."
Sam is a 15-year-old who was kicked out after his parents learned he is gay and moved in with his older sister and her husband. Sam's mood and grades have improved since leaving his parents, and his sister and her husband are financially supporting him without parental contribution. Therapy is recommended as a potential aid, with an initial offer or a few sessions if Sam is receptive. Forcing therapy while Sam is still adjusting could be counterproductive and may prevent meaningful engagement. Healing may require time, readiness, and voluntary participation for therapy to be effective.
Read at Slate Magazine
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