A mother relocated at age 51 to be nearer to her two adult sons, seeking a closer relationship as they were transitioning into adulthood. She found the move intimidating and challenging, especially adjusting to a big city life after living in a small town. Though she initially believed the move was the right decision, she felt increasingly out of place and needy, leading to an overall discontent. After a year, she returned to her hometown, realizing the move had not worked out for her or her family.
I wasn’t moving for the apartment, though. The lease in my hometown was coming to an end, so the time felt right for a move.
My kids have always been my choice over dating, a career, and a marriage that left our little family hobbled but closer in the end.
The move was scary but I told myself it was right, even though it felt off.
Trying to make a new life at 51 - when you're too old to make the young parent friends, but too young to make retirement-age friends - is intimidating.
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