"Her parents adamantly believed that 12 (or whatever age it was) was the upper limit, and we all thought this was very sad. So I'm familiar with the idea that there are strong feelings about this. But it doesn't seem fair that kids can trick-or-treat, and their parents can join them (in some neighborhoods, even going door to door collecting margaritas or shots and having their own fun), and the people in the middle are left out."
"Most importantly, remember that this really is a holiday for children, and their experience should be the priority. Don't dress up as anything that's terrifying or includes "sexy" in the description. It's one thing for them to see a 4-foot-tall monster walking down the street, and another to see an adult-sized one. Obviously, butt cheeks won't be welcomed either. Step to the side as kids run up the walkway in front of you. Let them be the ones to ring the doorbell"
Some parents forbid trick-or-treating beyond a preteen age, leaving adolescents and young adults excluded. Participation in trick-or-treating by adults is acceptable provided that children's experiences remain the priority. Adults should avoid terrifying or sexualized costumes and should not wear revealing clothing. Adults should step aside to permit children to approach doorways and allow children to ring doorbells. Neighborhood social norms vary, and adults should respect households and timings. Non-disruptive, considerate adult participation can allow enjoyment without undermining the holiday's child-focused nature.
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