The letter from a mother struggling with a difficult relationship with her son and daughter-in-law highlights significant themes of familial estrangement and the impact of in-law dynamics. Despite her efforts to be a supportive parent, she faces rudeness from her son, fueled by his wife's sensitivity. The advice given emphasizes self-empowerment and encourages the mother to seek fulfillment beyond this painful situation, acknowledging that her relationship with her son has changed and urging her to focus on other friendships and activities instead of continuing to pursue a connection that causes her grief.
Assume control of your life and quit looking for crumbs from your son and his wife! Doing otherwise has brought you only pain and disappointment.
Your daughter-in-law seems to have taken control of your son, and he has allowed it. Sadly, it's not unusual.
When you see or talk to them, exchange nothing but pleasantries. Concentrate your energies on your friendships and other aspects of your life.
This may save you from additional grief and be more rewarding than continuing to hit your head against a brick wall.
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