The article discusses the social stigma surrounding women who choose not to have children, highlighting a conversation between two women at a barbecue. One woman expresses her reason for not having children as selfishness, which the author disputes. The author believes that choosing not to have children doesn't stem from selfishness but rather opens doors to different forms of self-extension. It emphasizes the importance of actively choosing to be generous and utilizing one's time and resources in meaningful ways, including nurturing relationships and contributing to the community.
There is a small sliver of women who chose not to have children when they have the means, and I am that "lonely sliver."
Not having children means no one requires you to get out of yourself. No toddler yanking at your sleeve demanding oatmeal. That's harder. In many ways, more dangerous.
To mature in the direction of generosity, it better be something. If it's not going to be kids, allocate your time differently.
I'm too selfish to have kids, too, is a sentiment I don't agree with. Itâs not about selfishness.
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