"A military mom wants to know how specific she should be with her kids about her spouse's upcoming deployment. They commiserate, and offer suggestions for how to keep the absent spouse involved even while they are away."
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A military mother asks how specific to be with her children about a spouse's upcoming deployment. Recommended approaches balance honest, age-appropriate explanations with routines and activities that keep the absent parent emotionally present. Practical methods include letters, video calls, shared projects, and small rituals to sustain connection during long absences. Parents should tailor explanations to children's developmental levels and prepare for logistical and emotional changes before, during, and after deployment. Everyday parenting moments illustrate the challenges: a planned day off that becomes chaotic, a calm solo morning, and difficulties navigating foreign public transit. Contact information is provided for listener follow-up.
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