'There is a personal side of it all:' How NFL QBs and refs approach their in-game chats

""I appreciate Hochuli for that," Mariota said. "It has been really a treat for me to get to know them.""

""I used to have fun with Gene [Steratore]," Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Aaron Rodgers told ESPN. "Gene was the best.""

""One time when I was in Cincinnati, it's like starting the game and a timeout before we took the field," Dalton said. "He said, 'All right, let's get 'em going now. Let's have a good game.' He was like cheering you on, which is cool. Or [I] made a good throw and he would say something like, 'Hey, hey, great throw.' Good job.'""

Several quarterbacks describe referees who connect on a personal level and lighten the game atmosphere. Marcus Mariota credits Shawn Hochuli for encouraging short, human conversations that allowed mental breaks during games. Aaron Rodgers and other quarterbacks remember Gene Steratore as someone who could joke, cheer, or offer encouragement after plays. Andy Dalton recalled a referee motivating players before kickoff and offering praise after good throws. Referees who communicate and show appreciation can make players feel seen and remind them that officials are football fans and people too. Some referees also appreciate quarterbacks who keep the mood relaxed and humorous.

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