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Choosing a name for my daughter was a challenging task years ago, with my husband favoring Tamar while I preferred Naomi. During a lunch with Isaac Bashevis Singer, he suggested naming her Naomi, citing the complexities of the Biblical character Tamar. This insight resonated with my view of Naomi's character. In my experience as an advice columnist, the evolution of advice columns has shown that readers often seek reassurance rather than specific answers, mirroring the contemporary 'Am I the Asshole' debates.
Isaac Bashevis Singer, noticing my pregnant state, inquired about the baby. Upon learning of the naming impasse, he recommended naming her Naomi.
Advice columnists, including myself, have witnessed a shift in readership priorities. Many seek validation over direct answers, akin to the 'Am I the Asshole' discourse.
Read at The New Yorker
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