Britain and Ireland's relationship examined: The British 'take the Irish for granted, whereas they are obsessed with us. We don't remember the past and they cannot forget it'
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Britain and Ireland share an intensely close but complex relationship shaped by historical memory, political ties, and cultural entanglement. A 1977 diplomatic dispatch noted that the British tend to take the Irish for granted while the Irish remain preoccupied with Britain; the British forget the past while the Irish cannot. That asymmetry creates lingering sensitivities, misunderstandings, and emotional burdens on both sides. Public reflection about the bilateral relationship often lacks depth. Greater sustained reflection, empathetic diplomacy, and honest engagement with historical grievances could improve mutual understanding and ease tensions.
The intensely close but complex relationship between Britain and Ireland is one that a British ambassador to Ireland observed in a 1977 dispatch: the British "take the Irish for granted, whereas (the Irish) are obsessed with us. We don't remember the past and they cannot forget it." If we think a lot about that relationship, one might think that there would be no need for a book like Philip Stephens's These Divided Isles. Too often we don't think deeply about our relationship with Britain.
the British "take the Irish for granted, whereas (the Irish) are obsessed with us. We don't remember the past and they cannot forget it."
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