I asked my 87-year-old neighbor what she would tell her 40-year-old self, and her answer made me pull over and cry on the way home - Silicon Canals
Briefly

I asked my 87-year-old neighbor what she would tell her 40-year-old self, and her answer made me pull over and cry on the way home - Silicon Canals
"I'd tell her to stop saving her good china for special occasions that never came. She told me about the trips she'd postponed until retirement, only to have her husband develop health issues that made travel impossible. About the novel she'd always meant to write but kept putting off until the kids were grown, then until she had more time, then until she felt ready."
"I had this beautiful set of china, wedding gift from my mother. Used it maybe five times in forty-seven years of marriage. After my husband died, I started eating my morning eggs on those fancy plates. Every single day. You know what I discovered? Food doesn't actually taste better on special occasions."
A neighbor's reflection on life regrets reveals the cost of perpetual postponement. Margaret shares how she delayed travel, writing, and joy, waiting for retirement or ideal conditions that never materialized. She kept expensive china unused for decades, only to use it daily after her husband's death. Her wisdom centers on recognizing that special occasions rarely arrive as planned, and waiting for the right moment often means missing life entirely. The realization prompts deep consideration of what dreams and experiences are being unnecessarily deferred in pursuit of an imaginary future.
Read at Silicon Canals
Unable to calculate read time
[
|
]