"I've been with my boyfriend for nine years. Now his moods are the driving force of the relationship. I never know how he is going to act when I see him. He can be kind one minute and hostile the next. I think he may have some kind of mental condition. I have suggested that he go to a doctor to talk about medication that helps people with depression or other mood disorders. He refuses."
"I wholeheartedly believe that therapy can save relationships and be a major contributor to their success. If your partner is unwilling to get help when it is clear that he has some issues, that is a red flag. If you believe his going untreated is too much for you to handle, give him an ultimatum: He must get help, or you'll leave. Then act on it."
"I have a friend who posted online recently that she didn't feel that life was worth living anymore. I called to check on her immediately. She didn't talk about what was going on directly, but she sounded sad and despondent. I offered to come visit or to take her out somewhere. So far, she has not agreed. I'm not sure what to do."
Nine-year relationship plagued by a partner's unpredictable mood swings has made daily interactions unstable and suggests possible mood disorder. The partner refuses medical evaluation or medication despite suggestions, leaving the other partner unable to tolerate a lifetime of unchecked issues. The recommended action is to give an ultimatum requiring professional help, then follow through if the partner refuses; therapy can save relationships and seeking treatment is a valid red flag response. A separate situation involves a friend posting that life is not worth living; repeated outreach and offers to visit have been made, with concern about potential self-harm and recognition of widespread mental fragility.
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