"She knows that manual stimulation takes forever to get me off, but oral sex has always been a reliable and efficient way to get me off. Except it's just not happening. And I don't just mean oral. I mean she was not enthusiastic about making me come once after I'd gotten her off multiple times. She begins cuddling me and seems to not give it a thought."
"I was with my last ex for seven years. She was hot but not generous in bed. She was emotionally distant. I just didn't feel wanted. It was a frustrating seven years, but much of that happened over the pandemic when it was hard to separate. And then when we did, she said it was because she'd realized she wasn't attracted to women after all, and in fact had fallen for a man. Well, that explained a few things."
An early-40s lesbian in Las Vegas has repeated experiences of partners failing to reciprocate oral sex, leaving her frustrated despite enthusiastic persistence to help partners orgasm. She spent seven years in a relationship where her partner was emotionally distant and sexually ungenerous, later revealing attraction to men. After a three-year dating hiatus, she met a loving, compatible partner who still fails to enthusiastically provide oral sex or prioritize her orgasm. Manual stimulation takes too long for her to orgasm, while oral sex reliably succeeds, yet oral reciprocity remains lacking despite communication.
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