"Giving a sexy present requires careful consideration. If you proffer a heavy-duty vibrator, piece of bondage gear or other bit of serious kit, the recipient may feel obliged to use it with you straight away so as not to look ungrateful even if they're secretly a tad intimidated, or aren't ready to get freaky before the leftover turkey's been turned into stir-fry."
"Be honest with yourself about whether you're selecting a pressie for their pleasure or yours, too. If you've been angling to try nipple clamps, but your partner isn't keen, trying to force their hand by buying some for Christmas will make them want to use the nutcrackers on you instead of the pecans. Creative presentation can make all the difference between a provocative parcel seeming cliched or sleazy, and being a gloriously intentional invitation to shared bliss (or pure dirt)."
Sexy gift-giving requires careful attention to the recipient's comfort and consent. Combine daring items with softer playthings like bath bombs or massage candles to reduce pressure and increase enjoyment. Be honest about whether the gift is for their pleasure or primarily for the giver. Avoid using presents to force sexual preferences on a partner, since that can create resentment or discomfort. Focus on creative, intentional presentation to make provocative parcels feel thoughtful rather than sleazy. Practical, inclusive options include long-lasting matte lipsticks, mock garters that simplify wear, and textured stroker sleeves for solo or shared play.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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