#conscious-awareness

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Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says the secret to a good retirement isn't wealth or health or even relationships - it's having at least one thing you're still in the middle of, still becoming, still learning how to do - Silicon Canals

Retirement fulfillment stems from ongoing pursuits and curiosity, not just financial security or traditional metrics of success.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 44 and I have started paying attention to how I feel the morning after I spend time with someone - not during, when the performance is running, but after, when the honest version arrives - and that single habit has told me more about my relationships than twenty years of thinking about them - Silicon Canals

The morning after social interactions reveals true emotional states, often contrasting with the perceived enjoyment during the event.
Writing
fromTiny Buddha
2 days ago

Phone Down, Eyes Up: How to Really See the People We Love - Tiny Buddha

Offering attention is the most valuable gift we can give to others.
Productivity
fromFast Company
2 days ago

Four steps for better focus from a cognitive scientist

Inability to focus is a major barrier to productivity, often exacerbated by self-inflicted distractions.
Wearables
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the people who still wear a wristwatch in a world of smartphones aren't behind - they have a specific relationship with time and intention that most people quietly abandoned without realizing what they gave up - Silicon Canals

Wearing a watch reflects a conscious decision about one's relationship with time, transforming from a necessity to a personal statement.
Design
fromDesign Milk
3 days ago

An Argument for Interior Design with Neuroaesthetics in Mind

Interior design should prioritize functional aesthetics to enhance mental health, creativity, and interpersonal connections through a new field called Neuroarchitecture.
#decision-making
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Why You Can Change Your Mind at the Last Minute

Changing decisions at the last minute often results from clearer understanding as emotions settle and more information is gathered.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
11 hours ago
Psychology

New study shows how the brain weighs evidence to make decisions

Free choices and forced decisions are processed similarly in the brain, despite feeling different to us.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Why You Can Change Your Mind at the Last Minute

Changing decisions at the last minute often results from clearer understanding as emotions settle and more information is gathered.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
#ai
Philosophy
fromApaonline
1 day ago

APA Member Interviews, Sharon Crasnow

Sharon Crasnow focuses on feminist epistemology and social science methodology, emphasizing the importance of objectivity and measurement in her work.
fromArs Technica
2 days ago

AI on the couch: Anthropic gives Claude 20 hours of psychiatry

Claude's primary affect states were curiosity and anxiety, with secondary states of grief, relief, embarrassment, optimism, and exhaustion. The report noted that Claude's personality was consistent with a relatively healthy neurotic organization.
Artificial intelligence
Berlin
fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

How distance changes perception: The making of an observer

Understanding the United States involves navigating complex cultural and institutional landscapes shaped by personal experiences and global interactions.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

The Unlived Life: Jung's Most Haunting Concept

Success can lead to an unsettling realization of the unlived life, where unfulfilled aspects of personality and desires remain hidden.
Mindfulness
fromTiny Buddha
1 day ago

From People-Pleasing to Self-Trust: How to Come Back to Yourself - Tiny Buddha

Indecision and people-pleasing stem from past experiences of conflict and self-doubt, leading to a loss of personal identity.
#emotional-health
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The friend who always checks in on everyone but never tells anyone when they're struggling isn't hiding. They've simply never had the experience of someone noticing without being told, and after long enough, the idea of being spontaneously seen starts to feel like something that happens to other people. - Silicon Canals

Being the emotional caretaker in friendships can lead to neglecting one's own emotional needs and feelings.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says people who've mastered not caring aren't detached - they went through a period of caring so much it nearly broke them, and came out the other side with a much shorter list - Silicon Canals

Mastering the art of not caring comes from exhaustion, not indifference, after deeply caring and learning what deserves emotional energy.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The friend who always checks in on everyone but never tells anyone when they're struggling isn't hiding. They've simply never had the experience of someone noticing without being told, and after long enough, the idea of being spontaneously seen starts to feel like something that happens to other people. - Silicon Canals

Being the emotional caretaker in friendships can lead to neglecting one's own emotional needs and feelings.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says people who've mastered not caring aren't detached - they went through a period of caring so much it nearly broke them, and came out the other side with a much shorter list - Silicon Canals

Mastering the art of not caring comes from exhaustion, not indifference, after deeply caring and learning what deserves emotional energy.
fromGreaterwrong
4 days ago
Artificial intelligence

My picture of the present in AI

AI companies are experiencing significant productivity increases through the integration of advanced AI tools, achieving a speed-up of around 1.6x.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

What's the Difference Between Wisdom and Critical Thinking?

Wisdom and critical thinking are distinct, with wisdom arising from experience and offering long-term insights, while critical thinking can foster wisdom over time.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

The version of you that exists in your best friend's memory and the version that exists in your own are so different that if they met, they might not recognize each other. And the distance between those two versions is usually the exact shape of whatever you refuse to believe about yourself. - Silicon Canals

Self-perception often conflicts with how others see us, revealing deeper issues of self-deception and internalized beliefs about who we are allowed to be.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

People who always respond with "fine" when asked how they are aren't lying - they learned, at some specific point in their life, that the true answer produced outcomes that were worse than the silence, and fine has been the silence ever since - Silicon Canals

Personal experiences with anxiety and emotional responses reveal deeper truths about coping mechanisms and the challenges of authentic communication.
#happiness
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the happiest people aren't the ones who found their passion - they're the ones who stopped treating their life as a problem that needed solving - Silicon Canals

The relentless pursuit of passion may lead to unhappiness, while embracing diverse interests can foster a richer, more fulfilling life.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Research suggests that people who pursue happiness directly almost never find it - but people who pursue meaning, connection, and acceptance report a quiet contentment that outlasts every peak experience - Silicon Canals

Pursuing happiness directly often leads to disappointment and lower satisfaction, as expectations create a gap between reality and feelings.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the happiest people aren't the ones who found their passion - they're the ones who stopped treating their life as a problem that needed solving - Silicon Canals

The relentless pursuit of passion may lead to unhappiness, while embracing diverse interests can foster a richer, more fulfilling life.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Research suggests that people who pursue happiness directly almost never find it - but people who pursue meaning, connection, and acceptance report a quiet contentment that outlasts every peak experience - Silicon Canals

Pursuing happiness directly often leads to disappointment and lower satisfaction, as expectations create a gap between reality and feelings.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why Deep People Struggle in Modern Relationships

Modern dating prioritizes speed over depth, creating pressure that conflicts with those who need time for genuine connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Most people don't realize that the spotlight effect - the documented tendency to believe others are watching and judging us far more than they are - quietly steals decades of joy from people who never knew it had a name - Silicon Canals

The spotlight effect leads individuals to overestimate how much attention others pay to their perceived flaws.
#solitude
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The quiet power of doing nothing - why highly sensitive people who protect their solitude aren't avoiding life, they're preserving the energy most people burn through by noon - Silicon Canals

Solitude is often undervalued in a culture that glorifies constant activity and productivity.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says people who genuinely enjoy being alone aren't missing the need for connection - they've located the one condition under which their full self is available, and that condition happens to require an empty room, and there is nothing wrong with that except that the world was not designed with them in mind and has been making them feel guilty about it ever since - Silicon Canals

Society often mislabels the need for solitude as a deficiency, while those who recharge alone are more emotionally stable and focused.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The quiet power of doing nothing - why highly sensitive people who protect their solitude aren't avoiding life, they're preserving the energy most people burn through by noon - Silicon Canals

Solitude is often undervalued in a culture that glorifies constant activity and productivity.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says people who genuinely enjoy being alone aren't missing the need for connection - they've located the one condition under which their full self is available, and that condition happens to require an empty room, and there is nothing wrong with that except that the world was not designed with them in mind and has been making them feel guilty about it ever since - Silicon Canals

Society often mislabels the need for solitude as a deficiency, while those who recharge alone are more emotionally stable and focused.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I realized recently that I've spent years becoming whoever the room needed me to be - and now I honestly can't tell the difference between what I actually enjoy and what I've just been pretending to for so long it stuck - Silicon Canals

Constantly adapting to others' expectations can lead to losing touch with one's authentic self and preferences.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says the people who look back at the end of their lives with the least regret aren't the ones who made the fewest mistakes - they're the ones who were most fully present for the life they were actually living, who didn't spend it waiting for a better version to begin, who loved the people in front of them rather than the idea of people, and who understood, early enough to act on it, that this was always the whole thing and there was never going to be another one - Silicon Canals

Presence, not perfection, leads to a life without regret at the end.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

The #1 Gratitude Killer: Why Some People Can't Say Thank You

Narcissism hinders gratitude and can be a personality trait affecting one's ability to express appreciation.
#consciousness
Philosophy
fromBig Think
1 month ago

Consciousness may be more than the brain's output - it may be an input, too

Consciousness remains scientifically inaccessible through third-person observation, yet a radical theory proposes consciousness can physically influence brain dynamics and leave measurable traces.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Can Science Explain Consciousness?

Michael Pollan explores consciousness through examining plant sentience, AI potential consciousness, thought generation, and the nature of self, while acknowledging science may not definitively answer these fundamental questions.
Philosophy
fromBig Think
1 month ago

Consciousness may be more than the brain's output - it may be an input, too

Consciousness remains scientifically inaccessible through third-person observation, yet a radical theory proposes consciousness can physically influence brain dynamics and leave measurable traces.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Can Science Explain Consciousness?

Michael Pollan explores consciousness through examining plant sentience, AI potential consciousness, thought generation, and the nature of self, while acknowledging science may not definitively answer these fundamental questions.
#emotional-intelligence
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago
Mindfulness

Psychology says being unbothered isn't emotional distance - it's the result of finally understanding which battles were never yours to fight - Silicon Canals

Being unbothered is about recognizing which conflicts are not yours, not emotional detachment.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

People who are extremely good at reading a room often have no idea how to simply be in one. The scanning never stops. The social radar that everyone admires is the same system that prevents them from ever fully arriving anywhere, because arriving would require turning it off. - Silicon Canals

Emotional intelligence often acts as a surveillance system that hinders genuine connection rather than enhancing it.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says being unbothered isn't emotional distance - it's the result of finally understanding which battles were never yours to fight - Silicon Canals

Being unbothered is about recognizing which conflicts are not yours, not emotional detachment.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

People who are extremely good at reading a room often have no idea how to simply be in one. The scanning never stops. The social radar that everyone admires is the same system that prevents them from ever fully arriving anywhere, because arriving would require turning it off. - Silicon Canals

Emotional intelligence often acts as a surveillance system that hinders genuine connection rather than enhancing it.
#loneliness
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the loneliness of having no close friends is not the same loneliness of being isolated - it is the loneliness of being consistently almost known, of spending years in relationships that go up to the edge of real intimacy and stop, and the stopping is always the same stopping and it is always your own hand on the door - Silicon Canals

Real connection requires depth, not just quantity, in relationships to avoid feelings of isolation.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific kind of social performance I've perfected over twenty years of having no close friends. I can walk into any room, be warm and engaged for three hours, drive home in complete silence, and feel more alone than I did before I arrived - Silicon Canals

Social performance can mask deep loneliness, as individuals may connect outwardly but feel isolated internally.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the loneliness of having no close friends is not the same loneliness of being isolated - it is the loneliness of being consistently almost known, of spending years in relationships that go up to the edge of real intimacy and stop, and the stopping is always the same stopping and it is always your own hand on the door - Silicon Canals

Real connection requires depth, not just quantity, in relationships to avoid feelings of isolation.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific kind of social performance I've perfected over twenty years of having no close friends. I can walk into any room, be warm and engaged for three hours, drive home in complete silence, and feel more alone than I did before I arrived - Silicon Canals

Social performance can mask deep loneliness, as individuals may connect outwardly but feel isolated internally.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why We Struggle With Change Even When We Want It

Change is inherently difficult, influenced by past experiences and the desire for familiarity, but self-awareness can facilitate lasting transformation.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says people who feel a persistent low-level sadness they cannot attribute to any specific cause aren't depressed in the clinical sense - they're experiencing the accurate emotional response to a life that has drifted, incrementally and without announcement, away from the one they meant to live, and the sadness is not a symptom, it is a signal, and signals are not treated, they are followed - Silicon Canals

Low-grade melancholy may signal a disconnect between current life and expectations, rather than being a symptom of depression.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

How Self-Compassion Helps You Take Real Responsibility

Self-compassion fosters accountability and well-being, while shame hinders personal growth and responsibility.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Are We Programming Our Own Obsolescence?

Cultural narratives shape personal identities and perceptions of progress, influencing desires, fears, and moral values.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Nobody prepares you for the exhaustion of being naturally magnetic - the way people assume your warmth has no limits, your attention has no cost, and your need to be seen doesn't exist - Silicon Canals

Emotional Magnetic Load (EML) describes the invisible weight of managing others' emotions while neglecting one's own needs.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Architecture of Identity: How the Brain Builds a Self

Attention is the brain's filtering mechanism; what passes through that filter is what gets encoded. What gets encoded becomes memory. And memory is the raw material of identity. So in the architecture of your identity, attention is the doorway.
Miscellaneous
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Is Anger Always Justifiable?

Emotional reasoning can distort reality, leading perfectionists to justify anger based solely on its existence, potentially harming relationships.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Stop Pretending to Be Happy

Emotional acceptance leads to healthier processing of feelings, while suppression prolongs negative emotions and creates incongruence between feelings and expressions.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Link Between Thinking and Being

Metaphors are linked to how we experience the world around us, according to seminal work by researchers George Lakoff and Mark Johnson. In English, we "move forward" with our lives and don't "retreat into" the past. We speak about people who are "cold as ice" and "heavy" matters we need to resolve. Some of these metaphorical expressions are more than just, well, expressions-they are actually based on our sensory experiences. This mind-body link is called "embodied cognition."
Science
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Silent Minds: Exploring the Absence of Inner Speech

Inner speech varies among individuals, and not everyone experiences it, indicating diverse cognitive processes.
Science
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
2 months ago

Inside the incredible, infuriating quest to explain consciousness

Brains evolved during the Cambrian to integrate sensory input, enabling organisms to experience pain, pleasure, emotions, curiosity, and eventually self-awareness, fueling art, science, and philosophy.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Your Most Horrifying Thoughts May Not Mean What You Think

Intrusive sexual thoughts are a common form of OCD, often misidentified and not indicative of actual desire.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Our Inner Life Rules: Habit or Choice?

Inner rules governing self-treatment are often inherited and unexamined, with therapy providing a chance to consciously choose them.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I became calm the day I realized that 90% of what I worried about was just rehearsing conversations that would never happen with people who weren't even thinking about me - Silicon Canals

Imagined interactions are a common psychological phenomenon where individuals simulate conversations with others, often leading to unnecessary emotional distress.
fromMail Online
1 month ago

Consciousness can connect you to the entire UNIVERSE, theory suggests

Your consciousness can connect you with the entire universe, a groundbreaking study suggests. Experts from Wellesley College in Massachusetts claim that traditional connections in the brain cannot fully explain how we are aware of our existence. Instead, they argue that quantum physics taking place within our skull is what generates awareness. This includes the idea that particles can exist in multiple states and locations at the same time.
Science
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

How Does the Brain Know Itself?

Introspection provides direct empirical contact with physical reality through interoception and neural integration, where bodily sensations become emotional and self-aware experiences via the insula and prefrontal cortex.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Higher States of Consciousness

A few years ago, I climbed over a gate and found myself gazing down at a valley. After I'd been walking for a few minutes, looking at the fields and the sky, there was a shift in my perception. Everything around me became intensely real. The fields and the bushes and trees and the clouds seemed more vivid, more intricate and beautiful.
Mindfulness
#panpsychism
Mental health
fromNature
2 months ago

Daily briefing: What people with no 'mind's eye' can tell us about consciousness

Vividness of mental imagery, handwriting practices, psychiatric-diagnostic revisions, and emerging brain–computer interfaces shape memory, creativity, education, mental-health classification, and technology development.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why Are We Having So Much Trouble Explaining Consciousness?

Consciousness research remains fragmented because prevailing conceptual contexts and blind spots prevent scientific convergence on an explanatory theory.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Simple Feeling of Being

The simple feeling of being is the fundamental basis of every momentary perception. What's happening right now is the only starting point there could ever be. The simple feeling of being is without border or boundary. The simple feeling of being is inescapable. It is not something that needs to be created or generated or sustained or practiced. It is what is here already.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Moment You're In Matters More Than the One You Remember

One of my earliest cognitive therapy patients asked if we'd spend time exploring his past. He thought we might find patterns that would explain his depression. I was taken aback. I had just discovered a set of powerful, active techniques that helped people change how they felt in the here-and-now. As a psychiatric resident, I had seen that endless venting without specific techniques for change led to little or no relief.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Introspection and Consciousness: The Illusionism Debate

In my previous post, I summarized my response to Christian de Weerd, who denied that a Darwinian approach to consciousness is even possible. I argued that consciousness science has unnecessarily insulated itself from the evolutionary tools that revolutionized our understanding of every other biological phenomenon, and that treating human consciousness as the paradigm case distorts our picture of consciousness as a natural phenomenon spanning millions of species across millions of years.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Curious Geometry of the Lived Experience

This story is about complexity, advanced math, cognition, and machine computation. But hold on. For this exercise, my task is to take this complex idea and reduce it-to simplify it into something less daunting and (I hope) a bit easier to understand. So, let's take a step back. My bet is that most of us learned our first piece of geometry with two letters: x and y.
Philosophy
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