This is how we do it: We were both anxious when we met, but our sex life is a lot of fun now'

My body just reacted. I suddenly felt: I'd love to take this person to bed just to get closer to her.

In the bedroom, I try to play a little game to guess what's going to turn her on. She's very open about what she likes, and we often spend hours discussing what's bad or good.

There's a 14-year gap between us, and I wonder if that will catch up with me, and how Meredith will feel about it. But after losing my wife so suddenly, it made me realize that I shouldn't worry about the future.

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