As men, especially African men, we like conquests. In fact, we derive a lot of happiness by conquering things. Dating ladies is seen as conquest to men. We take pride in talking about how many ladies we have dated, or sometimes slept with. We feel powerful, on top of the world.
In some relationships, the ladies are 'oversized' to the men they're involved with. Such men can't handle them because their marital ideologies are far higher than those men's own, yet because of their African manly pride, they stubbornly refuse to take a 'bow out'.
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