The article discusses how parents cope with the loss of their children during social interactions, particularly when responding to inquiries about family size. Several parents share their methods of communication, emphasizing the importance of framing responses in a way that feels comfortable while allowing for honesty about their losses. Their insights offer valuable perspectives on grief, connection, and the importance of not denying the existence of lost loved ones, highlighting the emotional nuances of such conversations.
I decided I would never deny my son's existence in any situation. When the inevitable questions come, I share openly about my son.
It's easier if I say one child, but I feel like I'm negating my children who died. What I say now is, I have one surviving child.
I like that you frame your answer in a way that feels most comfortable for you; that's key. Sharing more can help others.
By sharing my loss, I provide an opportunity to connect with others who may have gone through similar experiences.
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