Tell him you want to have a serious conversation with him. Choose a time when both of you are sober and focused on talking to each other with no distractions. Then tell him of your suspicion.
Ask him what he wants. Let him know what you want and need in order to stay married to him. If that includes being monogamous, make that crystal clear, as you also point out that you didn't think that needed to be said.
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