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4 months agoWhy "Forgive and Forget" Is Bad Advice for Trauma Survivors
Forgiveness requires memory; it's not about forgetting.
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"I can't forgive him. I've tried for years, but I just can't," said Craig, referring to his father, who neglected him throughout his childhood. "I know it's because I'm a bad person. Good people forgive, and bad people don't."