Relationships
fromMail Online
5 days agoSexual arousal can lead to 'tunnel vision', study warns
Sexual arousal can distort perception, making ambiguous signals seem more romantic and causing people to miss rejection cues.
My husband and I have a great sex life that I love. He gets me off consistently with his fingers on my clit, and my orgasms are body-shattering and euphoric. However, ever since I first had sex, I've always been a little surprised and disappointed by how little sensation I feel in my vaginal canal. I can feel a penis, fingers, and toys go in, but once they're in, it's sort of a vague sensation of fullness, and nice, but not much.
With my (and my partner's) current living situation, the only time I'm able to engage with erotica/masturbate/be intimate with my partner is quite late at night. I usually end up going to bed shortly after. Now, whenever I engage in intimacy, or even so much as daydream about it, I get suddenly very sleepy. While it's a not-so-neat party trick to fall asleep quickly, it also means I struggle with staying engaged and having energy during sex. As soon as I get turned on, I just feel so... cozy.