Relationships
fromFast Company
2 weeks agoWhat to say when someone compliments you at work
Handling compliments effectively is crucial for building relationships and maintaining a positive self-image.
Praise. Universally good, right? Those of you who are fans of Alfie Kohn's (2018) work know it isn't. Praise comes with baggage. I (EB) was reminded of another downside by a young adult patient who sees praise as invalidating or dismissive of a person's experience. What about this exchange? Person: "I can't do it." Response: "Yes, you can. You are so amazing and strong."