Assumptions and 'ick' culture cause daters to misread intentions, leading people to prematurely disqualify compatible partners despite shared desires for meaningful, equal relationships.
Modern marriage often demands mutual self-actualisation, expecting one partner to provide love, support, personal growth and fulfilment, raising unrealistic expectations.
The soulmate myth undermines relationships; believing a partner must complete you causes unrealistic expectations and prevents long-term effort needed for lasting love.