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1 year ago

US politics

Gay bar defends decision to eject Trump supporters despite their cries of "discrimination" - LGBTQ Nation

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Knowing Themselves Helps LGBTQ+ Teens Thrive

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Heated Rivalry lookalike Felix Eller dishes on dating his "Shane Hollander" in the public eye - Queerty

5 days ago

Education

STEM can be a hostile place for queer kids. Rainbow Robotics is changing the game. - LGBTQ Nation

Are these realities that many gay men won't admit to themselves? - Queerty

Many gay men struggle with trauma from their upbringing, leading to issues with self-acceptance and the need for nurturing and therapy.

Lesbian organization wins appeal in demand to ban trans & bi women from events - LGBTQ Nation

A federal judge in Australia has set aside a ruling allowing the Lesbian Action Group to discriminate against trans and bisexual women, returning the case for reevaluation.

US politics

1 year ago

Gay bar defends decision to eject Trump supporters despite their cries of "discrimination" - LGBTQ Nation

A confrontation occurred at Chatterbox bar in Indianapolis between Trump supporters and staff, leading to ejection and social media backlash.

Knowing Themselves Helps LGBTQ+ Teens Thrive

Higher self-esteem in LGBTQ+ teens helps manage anxiety during high school transitions, while openness among cisgender peers improves social well-being.

LGBT

Heated Rivalry lookalike Felix Eller dishes on dating his "Shane Hollander" in the public eye - Queerty

Education

5 days ago

STEM can be a hostile place for queer kids. Rainbow Robotics is changing the game. - LGBTQ Nation

Queer students often face exclusion in STEM, but initiatives like Rainbow Robotics are fostering inclusion and acceptance in these spaces.

Are these realities that many gay men won't admit to themselves? - Queerty

Many gay men struggle with trauma from their upbringing, leading to issues with self-acceptance and the need for nurturing and therapy.

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Lesbian organization wins appeal in demand to ban trans & bi women from events - LGBTQ Nation

A federal judge in Australia has set aside a ruling allowing the Lesbian Action Group to discriminate against trans and bisexual women, returning the case for reevaluation.

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Seven fabulous sapphic events to celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week

The DIVA Awards are set to be the biggest yet, celebrating LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary trailblazers across entertainment, politics, and business, featuring live performances and a live auction.

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Social justice

A gay bar kicked out a wheelchair user as a "fire risk." Her response forced the bar to make amends. - LGBTQ Nation

Club Tropicana in Manchester apologized to Maddie Haining after discriminating against her as a wheelchair user, violating U.K. disability access laws.

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14 hours ago

Writing to Stay Alive: Lynn Breedlove from Trust Me and the Sound of Loss - KALTBLUT Magazine

The album that emerged is a series of vignettes about the men in Breedlove's life, living and dead, beloved and infuriating. It spans the AIDS crisis, chosen family, knife collections, and a complicated inheritance of grief that Breedlove transforms, as he always has, into something that makes people laugh and cry at the same time.

Music

WATCH: New indie comedy aims to be Sex And The City but gay(er) - Queerty

The new series features a group of friends navigating life, love, and creativity through a podcast format, reminiscent of 'Sex And The City.'

SOMA, SF

Anti-AI activist charged with firebombing home of gay OpenAI CEO Sam Altman - LGBTQ Nation

A suspect was arrested for a firebombing attempt on OpenAI CEO Sam Altman's home, driven by fears of artificial intelligence.

Brooklyn

fromGay City News

30 years of Brooklyn Pride: How the borough's twilight march became a Fifth Avenue tradition

Brooklyn Pride began in 1997, initiated by local residents to establish a major Pride event in the borough.

Independent films

fromKqed

What is 'Trans New Weird'? An Emerging Film Genre Screens at YBCA

Both Poison and The People's Joker challenge traditional narrative forms while addressing contemporary social issues through innovative storytelling.

NYC Pride grand marshal Peppermint says this year's focus must include trans people's humanity

Peppermint will serve as grand marshal for the 2026 NYC Pride March amid rising anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and cultural backlash.

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Washington DC

Grindr's White House Correspondents' Dinner pre-party is the hottest ticket in Washington

LGBT

"I'm gonna hold your tip when I say this": A rancid Grindr take has the gays talking - Queerty

Washington DC

Grindr's White House Correspondents' Dinner pre-party is the hottest ticket in Washington

Grindr's inaugural pre-party for the White House Correspondents' Dinner has become a highly sought-after invitation among media and political figures.

"I'm gonna hold your tip when I say this": A rancid Grindr take has the gays talking - Queerty

Grindr's entrenched culture includes persistent racism, with users openly expressing racial preferences in dating, reflecting ongoing issues within the queer community.

Families left reeling after hospitals in blue states drop transgender care for youth

Access to gender-affirming treatment can be limited even in supportive states due to individual hospital policies.

Productivity

fromFast Company

Should you attend a conference if you're not speaking?

Attending a conference without a speaking role can be beneficial depending on personal goals, networking opportunities, and learning experiences.

Portland food

fromwww.7x7.com

30 Fun Things to Do This Week (4.20.26)

Earth Day celebrations include sustainable fashion events, cleanups, special menus, and various festivals throughout the week.

Privacy professionals

Trump wants trans health records, but California is trying to stop him - LGBTQ Nation

California Assembly passed a bill to protect patient privacy against out-of-state subpoenas for medical records related to gender-affirming and reproductive care.

Education

fromIndependent

An Irish Goodbye... from Phuket: 'I feel like Thailand is one of the best countries in the world to live in as a gay woman'

Victoria St Leger transitioned from teaching in Ireland to exploring opportunities abroad, realizing the excitement of life in different countries.

Podcast

I was dropped from a faith podcast for being queer

An ordained queer minister faced cancellation from a podcast due to conflicting views on LGBTQIA+ topics, highlighting the need for awareness in faith spaces.

Berlin

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What we call sex work and what it says about society

Sex work has been represented and regulated throughout history, reflecting societal attitudes and moral discourses.

What happens when LGBTQ+ couples get a divorce - finances and rights explained

Divorce for LGBTQ+ couples is legally the same as for heterosexual couples, thanks to the introduction of no-fault divorce under the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020. This change has made the process less acrimonious, allowing couples to confirm that their marriage has irretrievably broken down without the need for blame.

Law

Privacy technologies

LGBTQ+ groups warn Meta's facial recognition smartglasses could harm queers & abuse victims - LGBTQ Nation

A coalition of over 70 activist groups urges Meta to halt its facial recognition feature on smartglasses due to privacy and safety concerns.

8 hours ago

PowerPoint Dating Events Are Trending

Friend-led PowerPoint presentations at 'Date My Mate' events offer a unique alternative to self-promotion in dating.

#trans-rights

7 hours ago

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Honey Dijon on her proudest career moment: "I get to choose my day as a marginalized trans woman of color" - Queerty

Surviving as a marginalized trans woman of color, Honey Dijon emphasizes authenticity, cultural respect, and financial prudence in her successful music career.

LGBT

Is 2026 still a year of hope for LGBTQ+ people? - LGBTQ Nation

Trans rights have faced significant setbacks in 2023, with multiple states enacting anti-trans legislation and the Supreme Court ruling against protections.

7 hours ago

Honey Dijon on her proudest career moment: "I get to choose my day as a marginalized trans woman of color" - Queerty

Surviving as a marginalized trans woman of color, Honey Dijon emphasizes authenticity, cultural respect, and financial prudence in her successful music career.

Is 2026 still a year of hope for LGBTQ+ people? - LGBTQ Nation

Trans rights have faced significant setbacks in 2023, with multiple states enacting anti-trans legislation and the Supreme Court ruling against protections.

The wild world of virtual sex work: 6 essential queer cam stories - Queerty

Camming has become a significant form of sex work, especially among queer individuals seeking creative freedom or economic necessity.

US politics

fromwww.mediaite.com

Caitlyn Jenner Complains Trump's Anti-Trans Policy Screwing Her Over And Trump Is Ignoring Her Pleas

Caitlyn Jenner expresses frustration over Trump's anti-trans policies affecting her passport situation, while still supporting him.

#lgbtq-rights

NYC LGBT

Time just released its 100 Most Influential People for 2026. LGBTQ+ people appeared throughout. - LGBTQ Nation

fromTime Out New York

NYC LGBT

After a long saga, the Pride flag is finally back at Stonewall

LGBT

They posted images of same-sex couples kissing. Now they face prison time. - LGBTQ Nation

Time just released its 100 Most Influential People for 2026. LGBTQ+ people appeared throughout. - LGBTQ Nation

Shannon Minter, a prominent transgender civil rights attorney, is recognized for his influential work in challenging anti-trans policies.

fromTime Out New York

After a long saga, the Pride flag is finally back at Stonewall

The rainbow flag will permanently return to the Stonewall National Monument after a legal settlement.

They posted images of same-sex couples kissing. Now they face prison time. - LGBTQ Nation

Eleven members of Young LGBTI+ face trial in Turkey for obscenity and violating family protection laws over social media posts of same-sex couples.

Advocate newsletter 4/14/26

Donald Trump awkwardly attempted to engage a DoorDash driver on trans women in sports during a photo-op.

fromIndependent

Saoirse Hanley: The romantic hopefuls on Love on the Spectrum could teach the rest of us a thing or two about honest dating

Lessons from Love on the Spectrum are not universally applicable to everyone.

Social justice

He came here for safety. America made him fight for it.

Canada's humane refugee program contrasts sharply with the U.S. policy of exclusion and restriction during the same period.

From Madonna mayhem to OF age gaps, we're having a very gay group chat - Queerty

Madonna's surprise new single has taken the queer community by storm, showcasing her continued relevance and ability to connect with fans through her music.

SF LGBT

fromwww.theguardian.com

22 hours ago

Are you a gentle partner' or a Fafo partner'? I know which team I'm on | Polly Hudson

Gentle partnering encourages active listening and empathy in relationships, particularly in challenging times.

Philz Coffee Reverses Pride Flag Policy After Backlash, Boycott Threats

Philz Coffee CEO Mahesh Sadarangani reversed the decision to remove Pride flags, apologizing for the confusion and hurt caused by the policy change.

fromThe Mercury News

Philz to leave Pride flags up, after all

Philz Coffee will keep its rainbow flags after public backlash and CEO's apology for the initial decision to remove them.

Philz Coffee suddenly retreats from Pride flag ban after employee & community outcry - LGBTQ Nation

Philz Coffee CEO reversed a decision to remove Pride flags after backlash from employees and the LGBTQ+ community.

Philz Coffee CEO restores Pride flags in stores after intense backlash: 'I made a mistake'

Philz Coffee reversed its decision to remove Pride flags after backlash, issuing a public apology and reaffirming support for the LGBTQ+ community.

San Francisco coffee chain to remove Pride flags from stores to be "more inclusive" - Queerty

Philz Coffee will remove Pride flags from stores, causing discontent among staff and customers who view them as symbols of safety and inclusivity.

fromsfist.com

Philz Coffee Reverses Pride Flag Policy After Backlash, Boycott Threats

Philz Coffee CEO Mahesh Sadarangani reversed the decision to remove Pride flags, apologizing for the confusion and hurt caused by the policy change.

fromThe Mercury News

Philz to leave Pride flags up, after all

Philz Coffee will keep its rainbow flags after public backlash and CEO's apology for the initial decision to remove them.

Philz Coffee suddenly retreats from Pride flag ban after employee & community outcry - LGBTQ Nation

Philz Coffee CEO reversed a decision to remove Pride flags after backlash from employees and the LGBTQ+ community.

Philz Coffee CEO restores Pride flags in stores after intense backlash: 'I made a mistake'

Philz Coffee reversed its decision to remove Pride flags after backlash, issuing a public apology and reaffirming support for the LGBTQ+ community.

San Francisco coffee chain to remove Pride flags from stores to be "more inclusive" - Queerty

Philz Coffee will remove Pride flags from stores, causing discontent among staff and customers who view them as symbols of safety and inclusivity.

What Happens When a Couple Opens Their Relationship?

1 in 5 adults have experienced a sexually open relationship, with increased sexual satisfaction reported.

fromwww.theguardian.com

15 hours ago

Lesbians are reclaiming Madonna as we await her new album, Confessions on a Dance Floor: Part II | Tiff Bakker

Madonna's Instagram purge sparked excitement for the imminent release of Confessions on a Dance Floor: Part II, highlighting her enduring connection with the LGBTQ+ community.

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4 years ago

Where To Go When You Don't Want To Make A Big Deal About Your Birthday, But You Actually Kinda Do - San Francisco - The Infatuation

Celebrate your birthday with minimal planning at nice group-friendly spots that feel special.

fromSan Francisco Bay Times

Queer Joy Unleashed: Sistory From the Archives at the SF LGBT Center - San Francisco Bay Times

Queer Joy Unleashed: Sistory From the Archives was a vibrant pop-up exhibition and party celebrating queer culture at the SF LGBT Center.

2 weeks ago

The best LGBTQ+ movies & TV shows coming to streaming April 2026 - Queerty

April features numerous queer movies and TV shows premiering across major streaming platforms.

8 months ago

What is a pillow princess & how do you know if you are one? - Queerty

Pillow princesses prefer receiving in bed, not necessarily indicating laziness, but rather personal preference in sexual dynamics.

As hookup apps lose their grip, gay bathhouses may soon offer an IRL cure for horniness in this U.S. city - Queerty

Minneapolis is considering re-opening bathhouses and gay sex clubs for the first time in nearly 40 years, reflecting changing societal attitudes.

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What is a 'stone top' lesbian? Everything you need to know about the term

Touch-me-not lesbians prefer to give rather than receive during sexual encounters and have specific boundaries regarding intimate touch.

PHOTOS: The gays are taking over Coachella with their thirsty fits - Queerty

This year's Coachella features headliners like Sabrina Carpenter, Justin Bieber, and Karol G, alongside LGBTQ-inclusive acts such as CMAT, The xx, and Ethel Cain.

SF LGBT

He told me he was in an open relationship...after we hooked up. Am I wrong to be annoyed? - Queerty

Open relationships can create misunderstandings if all parties are not upfront about their status before engaging.

Advocate newsletter 4/8/26

President Trump announced a two-week ceasefire in Iran just before a deadline for mass bombing.

fromwww.bbc.com

Trans woman leaves role with women's health charity

A trans woman resigned from a women's health charity amid criticism regarding her role and its implications for women's health advocacy.

8 months ago

I found a charge from a gay bar on my husband's bank statement. Is it time to ask the question I've avoided? - Queerty

A woman suspects her husband may be gay or bisexual, raising concerns about their relationship and his authenticity.

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Beyond 'fetish': Why queer women find sanctuary in M/M romance

Male/Male romances provide queer women a joyful, safe space for emotional connection and intimacy, free from societal expectations and anxieties about representation.

Tinder swoops in to save this beloved queer dating show... but there's a catch - Queerty

The BBC cancelled two LGBTQ+ dating shows citing funding challenges, while a Tinder spin-off featuring celebrities may offer a potential revival of the franchise.

3 weeks ago

My Slack notifications now come with sexual tension. Is this just gay culture at work? - Queerty

Explicit sexual conversations in the workplace can create discomfort and may cross professional boundaries.

2 weeks ago

Joel Kim Booster on his non-monogamous marriage: "The sex I'm having outside of my relationship is all recreational" - Queerty

Being gay creates more pressure regarding body image than being an actor, especially in casual sexual encounters.

fromwww.theguardian.com

Green Dot author Madeleine Gray: Chosen family is big in the queer community'

I thought: holy fuck, there's been a mistake, the 31-year-old author laughs.

Books

4 weeks ago

He dropped his pants & I saw something I wasn't prepared for. Now I'm questioning everything. - Queerty

Discovering a partner's Prince Albert piercing can challenge personal comfort levels and affect intimacy.

2 weeks ago

8 unapologetically trans-owned businesses redefining fashion, art, and more - LGBTQ Nation

Trans individuals significantly influence culture and deserve visibility and support, especially through trans-owned businesses.

Who Is Kinky?

Up to 96% of people fantasize about kinky sex, while 20-83% have tried it, though fewer identify as kinky due to stigma and social perception.

I'm an older man now, but I'm still only attracted to twinks. Is that weird? - Queerty

Sexual attraction patterns typically form early in life and remain relatively stable across decades, rather than automatically evolving with age.

Is your next hookup human? Inside the gay sex bot boom - Queerty

Queer people are adopting erotic chatbots for sexual engagement, continuing their historical role as early adopters of sex technology, raising questions about social and relational impacts.

fromBuzzFeed

"My Parents Cared More About Them Than Me": People With Poly Parents Share What It Was Like

Children raised in polyamorous families develop diverse perspectives on relationships, learning that love and support can come from multiple people when communication and consent are present.

These gay couples & singles are making this a happy Valentine's Day indeed - Queerty

Many U.S. adults view Valentine's Day positively and plan celebrations despite rising consumer spending, with average planned spending around $200.

fromSlate Magazine

I Got Into Bed With a Couple. When Our Clothes Came Off, I Had a Reaction I Couldn't Control.

I am a bisexual, 50-year-old woman who enjoys threesomes, including with the most common configuration of a bisexual woman partnered with a straight male. All my past encounters have been amazing-open communication, everyone hot for everyone, natural transitions between constellations of two and three people interacting. However, last night I ended up in bed with a couple, and once we got our clothes off, something happened.

Relationships

fromPUNCH

Could Sports Revive the Lesbian Bar Scene?

Lesbian bars rebounded from a steep decline through queer-coded spaces, women's-sports bars, community events, and pop-up strategies that proved local demand.

4 months ago

I lost my partner of 30 years & want to find love again, but apps aren't my scene. Where do I look? - Queerty

A 58-year-old widower mourns a long partnership and struggles to find companionship amid hookup-focused dating apps and persistent loneliness.

fromThe Atlantic

In Defense of Effeminate Gay Boys

Gender nonconformity in boys is a natural male variation, not an indicator of being female, and conflating the two undermines acceptance of diverse expressions of masculinity.

Diplo dishes on why he only likes going to gay parties: "Gay men are able to just be way more free & crazy" - Queerty

Gay men and gay nightlife drove the invention and evolution of dance, house, techno, and early hip-hop through experimental freedom and energetic party culture.

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Diplo likes gay bars because gay people are 'actually having fun'

Diplo prefers gay bars in Los Angeles because patrons are uninhibited, energetic, and drive musical experimentation and party trends.

fromwww.bbc.com

'LGBTQ+ museum lets community tell their stories'

Queer Britain preserves and showcases UK LGBTQ+ history, honoring trailblazers, memorializing HIV/AIDS victims, and celebrating diverse community cultures.

Boyfriends in church, '80s hunks & hot times in the bathtub: Gays reveal when they definitely knew they liked guys! - Queerty

It can be tough being gay in a straight man's world. When it comes to figuring out our identities, we often have to negotiate our desires with the preconceived expectations around us. This was especially the case for folks who grew up when there was scant representation. Certain attractions may have bubbled, but they remained nameless. Still, that doesn't mean they went unheeded. Gay people have found themselves for centuries.

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