Parenting
fromPsychology Today
10 hours agoHow Parenting Advice on Anxiety Misses Key Family Patterns
Helping children face fears requires parents to change their responses, not just focus on fixing the child.
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Public health
fromNonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
2 days agoMaternal Mortality Is a Policy Failure | Nonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
Maternal mortality in the U.S. is a public health emergency, with over 80% of deaths preventable and significant racial disparities in outcomes.
NYC parents
fromFortune
2 days agoIf the economy feels even worse for you than inflation data is showing, that might be because childcare isn't deemed a 'necessity' | Fortune
Inflation has risen to 3.3%, driven by commodity prices, particularly gasoline, affecting household affordability and economic perceptions.
SF parents
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days agoAre Axel Rudakubana's parents responsible for his terrible crime? It's a question many families will fear to answer | Gaby Hinsliff
Parents of Axel Rudakubana failed to act on warning signs, contributing to a tragedy involving the murders of three young girls.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoSocial psychologists found that people who keep their living spaces immaculate aren't necessarily organized - many of them learned that a clean house was the only form of control available in a childhood where everything else was unpredictable - Silicon Canals
Compulsive cleanliness in some individuals is a trauma response linked to childhood adversity, not merely a sign of organization or virtue.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPeople who grew up watching their parents stay together unhappily often become adults who are simultaneously terrified of commitment and terrified of leaving. They inherited the architecture of endurance without ever being shown what it was supposed to protect - Silicon Canals
Children of unhappy marriages may develop relational paralysis, feeling unable to commit or leave due to learned endurance without understanding its purpose.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThere's a type of adult who cannot receive a compliment without immediately deflecting it, and the deflection isn't modesty. It's the sound of a childhood where positive attention was always followed by a request, and the body learned that warmth was just the opening move before someone needed something. - Silicon Canals
False grounds in electrical work and personal interactions reveal how unacknowledged praise can lead to emotional deflection and avoidance.
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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says the adults most likely to end up in therapy aren't the ones who had dramatic or obviously painful childhoods - they're the ones who grew up in households where everything was technically fine, nobody was cruel, and something essential was quietly missing in a way that took decades to find the words for - Silicon Canals
Emotional neglect in seemingly fine childhoods can have profound effects, leaving individuals feeling their inner world doesn't matter.
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoMental health
I grew up with a mother who was physically there but emotionally unreachable - and the confusion that produced, the child's inability to grieve a parent who is standing right in front of them, is the thing I have spent the most years in therapy trying to untangle and the thing I understood least for the longest - Silicon Canals
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says the adults most likely to end up in therapy aren't the ones who had dramatic or obviously painful childhoods - they're the ones who grew up in households where everything was technically fine, nobody was cruel, and something essential was quietly missing in a way that took decades to find the words for - Silicon Canals
Emotional neglect in seemingly fine childhoods can have profound effects, leaving individuals feeling their inner world doesn't matter.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoI grew up with a mother who was physically there but emotionally unreachable - and the confusion that produced, the child's inability to grieve a parent who is standing right in front of them, is the thing I have spent the most years in therapy trying to untangle and the thing I understood least for the longest - Silicon Canals
Emotional absence from a present parent can lead to profound feelings of unworthiness in a child.
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Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoPsychology says parents who provided everything materially and nothing emotionally aren't cold - they were loved the same way and genuinely had no idea there was another option - Silicon Canals
Emotionally unavailable parents often substitute material provision and gifts for emotional presence, translating affection into the only language they fluently speak.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoMost people don't realize that children who grow up without affection don't struggle with love as adults. They struggle with trusting it, because it never felt safe to depend on - Silicon Canals
Emotional unavailability stems from a lack of early affection, leading to difficulties in accepting love despite an inherent capacity for it.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoPsychology says parents who provided everything materially and nothing emotionally aren't cold - they were loved the same way and genuinely had no idea there was another option - Silicon Canals
Emotionally unavailable parents often substitute material provision and gifts for emotional presence, translating affection into the only language they fluently speak.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people who talk about their childhood like it was fine but can't remember most of it aren't lying. The absence of memory and the absence of trauma feel identical from the inside until something cracks the seal, and by then the person has built an entire adult identity on the version where nothing happened. - Silicon Canals
Childhood amnesia affects memory retention, leading to a lack of vivid recollections from early years despite having a normal upbringing.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoChildren who grew up watching their parents stay together despite being visibly unhappy often develop a very specific fear as adults - they confuse sacrifice with love and can't tell the difference until someone shows them both - Silicon Canals
Emotional bonds with caregivers shape adult attachment patterns, influencing perceptions of love and suffering in relationships.
fromMail Online
2 weeks agoHaving children DOESN'T make you happy, study claims
'These results do not support our hypothesis that parenthood is positively associated with hedonic wellbeing (levels of positive emotions) and life satisfaction,' the researchers, from the University of Nicosia in Cyprus, wrote.
Parenting
NYC parents
fromThe Mercury News
1 month agoLetters: Meeting needs of mothers helps care for children
Meeting mothers' basic needs for menstrual products and diapers is essential for supporting child development and family stability, while automated license plate readers create risks for innocent drivers.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago7 behavioral patterns people display when they were raised by a parent who loved them deeply but had no idea how to express it without criticism - Silicon Canals
Critical parents can love deeply yet struggle to express it without criticism, leading to complex emotional patterns in their children.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
1 month agoFor The Overwhelmed Moms Trying To Do It All, You Can Blame "Institutional Lag"
Afternoon chaos for working mothers stems from institutional lag—outdated systems designed for single-income households with stay-at-home parents that fail to accommodate modern dual-income families.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoPsychology says children who had to parent themselves or their siblings don't just lose their childhood - they develop a permanent nervous system dysregulation that makes rest feel dangerous and relaxation feel like neglecting an invisible responsibility - Silicon Canals
Childhood responsibilities create nervous system patterns where vigilance, responsibility, and constant caretaking become equated with safety and love, while rest triggers guilt and anxiety in adulthood.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month agoMy Mother's New Fixation Is Terrifying My Daughter. She's Got to Stop.
A grandmother's repeated talk of impending death is frightening a 7-year-old; parents should establish boundaries with the grandmother and have an age-appropriate conversation with their child about mortality.
Parenting
fromIndependent
2 months agoOur daughter only wants her mum - how can I step in to help soothe her and share the load?
Young children often prefer one parent; gently stepping back and rebalancing caregiving duties prevents caregiver burnout and supports children's developing emotional regulation.
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