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fromwww.npr.org
11 hours ago

What draws people into cults? A new book tracks the journeys of two followers

Deborah Green, a frail 71-year-old woman, was the self-described general of the Aggressive Christianity Missions Training Corps, a cult that operated for decades.
Right-wing politics
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
9 hours ago

Time-Outs Work, if We Can Learn to Do Them Right

Well-implemented time-outs lead to positive outcomes and healthier relationships in adults who experienced them as children.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

I have to betray them to save them': how undercover film-makers exposed a sinister polygamous cult

These films that I'm making, says Dretzin, that other documentarians are making, are often more effective than the legal system at affecting change; psychological change and also sometimes systemic and criminal change.
Film
LGBT
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Conversion Therapy Is Still Happening. Now, It's Protected.

The Supreme Court's ruling jeopardizes conversion therapy bans in over 20 states, impacting LGBTQ communities and licensed therapists' rights.
Privacy professionals
fromWIRED
1 day ago

Men Are Buying Hacking Tools to Use Against Their Wives and Friends

Telegram groups facilitate the sale of hacking and surveillance services, promoting abusive content targeting women and girls.
US Elections
fromDefector
2 days ago

I Guess We're Just Waiting Around To See If This Demented Psychopath Kills Everyone | Defector

Donald Trump's threats against Iran represent a dangerous escalation in rhetoric and reflect a lack of coherent strategy in U.S. foreign policy.
#coercive-control
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Coercive Control: How Predatory Parents Fracture Attachment

Coercive control weaponizes children against protective parents, causing deep psychological harm and undermining secure attachments essential for healthy development.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
3 days ago

Are You A Victim Of 'Weaponized Empathy'? Here's How To Spot The Toxic Behavior.

Weaponized empathy manipulates compassion to influence behavior, often violating personal boundaries and enabling harmful dynamics.
SOMA, SF
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

Comeuppance: how an orgasmic cult' ended in a prison term for its founder

Clitoral stimulation practices have been linked to spiritual and emotional benefits, but legal issues arose for OneTaste's founder over coercion allegations.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the most damaging people in your life are rarely the obviously cruel ones - they're the ones who were kind just often enough to keep you doubting your own perception - Silicon Canals

Intermittent reinforcement creates confusion and self-doubt, making it difficult for individuals to recognize toxic relationships.
#lgbtq
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 days ago

I live in Colorado. Conversion therapy destroyed my life. - LGBTQ Nation

Conversion therapy causes significant harm, and recent Supreme Court rulings threaten the safety and well-being of LGBTQ youth.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
4 days ago

Why is conversion therapy so harmful? It's all about how young people form their identities. - LGBTQ Nation

Conversion therapy significantly harms LGBTQ+ youth, increasing suicidality and emotional distress during their critical identity-forming years.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 days ago

I live in Colorado. Conversion therapy destroyed my life. - LGBTQ Nation

Conversion therapy causes significant harm, and recent Supreme Court rulings threaten the safety and well-being of LGBTQ youth.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
4 days ago

Why is conversion therapy so harmful? It's all about how young people form their identities. - LGBTQ Nation

Conversion therapy significantly harms LGBTQ+ youth, increasing suicidality and emotional distress during their critical identity-forming years.
Social justice
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

My mom, the cult leader: She told us what to wear, when to pray, how we would have sex. We were prisoners'

Sarah Green's realization of her mother's abusive actions in their religious community led to her questioning the beliefs she was raised with.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

My Mom Got a Call That I Was in a Horrific Accident. What She Did Next Can't Be Undone.

Scammers exploit emotional vulnerabilities, making it crucial to educate and protect against future scams.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
6 days ago

37 Phrases To De-Escalate An Argument, According To Real Therapists

Knowing how to de-escalate arguments can help maintain healthy relationships and improve communication.
#dissociation
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

5 Signs That Dissociation May Be Present in Therapy

Dissociation manifests subtly in therapy through emotional shifts, parts language, and disconnection as adaptive survival mechanisms rather than pathology.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

5 Signs That Dissociation May Be Present in Therapy

Dissociation manifests subtly in therapy through emotional shifts, parts language, and disconnection as adaptive survival mechanisms rather than pathology.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Psychoanalysis Is a Type of Exposure Therapy

Psychoanalysis and exposure therapy both involve gradual exposure to feared stimuli, with relationships being the primary focus in psychoanalysis.
#conversion-therapy
Film
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 week ago

23 films that expose the reality of conversion therapy - LGBTQ Nation

Conversion therapy is inhumane, ineffective, and continues to have lasting emotional and cultural effects on individuals and society.
Right-wing politics
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 weeks ago

This psychologist was a key supporter of conversion therapy in the 90s. He changed his mind. - LGBTQ Nation

Psychologist Warren Throckmorton reversed his support for conversion therapy after encountering evidence of its inefficacy, becoming a vocal critic and exposing connections between conversion therapy resurgence and Christian nationalism.
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 month ago
Miscellaneous

Court says "ex-gay" X Factor contestant can freely discuss conversion therapy on TV - LGBTQ Nation

Film
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 week ago

23 films that expose the reality of conversion therapy - LGBTQ Nation

Conversion therapy is inhumane, ineffective, and continues to have lasting emotional and cultural effects on individuals and society.
Right-wing politics
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 weeks ago

This psychologist was a key supporter of conversion therapy in the 90s. He changed his mind. - LGBTQ Nation

Psychologist Warren Throckmorton reversed his support for conversion therapy after encountering evidence of its inefficacy, becoming a vocal critic and exposing connections between conversion therapy resurgence and Christian nationalism.
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 month ago
Miscellaneous

Court says "ex-gay" X Factor contestant can freely discuss conversion therapy on TV - LGBTQ Nation

Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

When the World Feels Scary, These 2 Questions Can Help

Grounding techniques effectively manage anxiety and enhance personal agency by focusing on the present and what can be controlled.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

What the Epstein case teaches us about grooming podcast

People talk about Jeffrey Epstein as though he's special or as though he's mysterious in some way. That takes away from the truth of it, which is that there are lots of people like him.
Books
fromMail Online
2 weeks ago

CIA's chilling plot to turn ordinary Americans into 'assassins'

'You have documented projects called MK-Ultra and other variations of mind control that focused on creating splits and multiple personalities, couriers, spies and Manchurian candidates capable of assassinating world leaders,' said Ross, who specializes in trauma-related disorders and has spent decades studying dissociation and memory.
Right-wing politics
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Religious Trauma, Attachment, and Leaving Faith

Many people leave religion due to a deeper pull towards life and a mismatch between their inner experience and rigid faith structures.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Not everyone who avoids asking for help is proud. Some of them asked once, received it with a lecture attached, and learned that the cost of support was a small erosion of standing they could never quite earn back. - Silicon Canals

Asking for help can lead to unintended consequences that affect relationships and self-perception.
Medicine
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

My Schizophrenia Recovery Today

Schizophrenia recovery is possible through persistent treatment; the author achieved full symptom remission after initial total disability diagnosis using clozapine therapy.
Psychology
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

8 Sneaky Signs You're Being Emotionally Manipulated

Emotional manipulation often manifests through subtle control, leading to confusion and anxiety in relationships.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

The Atheist's Guide to Surviving End Times

Non-religious people experience apocalyptic anxiety from modern crises despite disbelieving End Times prophecy, requiring meaning-making through psychological and social resources rather than faith.
#manipulation
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

I'm 44 and the most powerful thing I ever learned about dealing with manipulative people is that silence - actual, sustained, unapologetic silence - makes them unravel in ways that confrontation never does - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

Research suggests the most effective way to shut down a manipulator isn't arguing with their logic - it's refusing to participate in the emotional transaction they're trying to create - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

5 Manipulation Tactics You Might Not See Until It's Too Late

Gaslighting, guilt-tripping, moving the goalposts, and triangulation are manipulative tactics that undermine reality and self-worth in relationships.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I'm 44 and the most powerful thing I ever learned about dealing with manipulative people is that silence - actual, sustained, unapologetic silence - makes them unravel in ways that confrontation never does - Silicon Canals

Silence can effectively disrupt manipulative dynamics by refusing to engage in confrontational exchanges.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Research suggests the most effective way to shut down a manipulator isn't arguing with their logic - it's refusing to participate in the emotional transaction they're trying to create - Silicon Canals

Manipulators seek to dominate rather than engage in genuine dialogue, using emotional reactions as a means to control the interaction.
fromDefector
2 weeks ago

The New Evangelists | Defector

Seyfried's performance as Ann Lee lets the viewer in on the production of faith-particularly, an overt faith. Bearing witness to such performance leads to basic questions about people and the way that we live.
Film
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

People Don't Just Update Beliefs, They Test Them

Understanding psychological change requires recognizing the role of control and mastery in actively pursuing change despite familiar limitations.
UK news
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

ChatGPT driving rise in reports of satanic' organised ritual abuse, UK experts say

ChatGPT is facilitating increased reports of organised ritual abuse in the UK, with survivors using AI as a therapeutic tool to process experiences of satanic sexual violence and seek support services.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

New Research: Some People Really Do Fall for Corporate BS

Employees impressed by corporate gibberish perform poorly in decision-making and confuse it with business savvy.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Still Waiting to Hear "You Were Right"?

The desire for validation stems from past neglect and devaluation, creating a painful emotional wound that seeks recognition and worth.
Artificial intelligence
fromMail Online
1 month ago

Priests, imams and rabbis warned of rise AI-fuelled SATANISM

Religious leaders are attending a Vatican-affiliated exorcism course in Rome to address concerns about AI-enabled satanism and devil worshippers using artificial intelligence for rituals and child exploitation.
Social justice
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

My High School Teacher Groomed Me. I Kept His Secret - Until Now.

A teacher groomed and sexually abused a student starting at age 14-15, exploiting her vulnerabilities and isolation through manipulation, special attention, and isolation tactics that continued into college.
#gaslighting
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How Gaslighters Con Their Partners into Believing Them

Gaslighting is deliberate manipulation where someone convinces you your memory is wrong, exploiting memory's natural fallibility to control partners in close relationships.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Psychology

8 phrases manipulators slip into casual conversation that make you question your own reality - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How Gaslighters Con Their Partners into Believing Them

Gaslighting is deliberate manipulation where someone convinces you your memory is wrong, exploiting memory's natural fallibility to control partners in close relationships.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Psychology

8 phrases manipulators slip into casual conversation that make you question your own reality - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Obedience on Overdrive: How to Soothe Punishment Sensitivity

Punishment sensitivity influences behavior, but high levels can lead to mental health issues like anxiety and depression.
fromTruthout
1 month ago

The Science of Unlearning And Why Organizers Need It

Real change rarely happens through debate or persuasion. Instead, transformation grows out of relationships, shared struggle, cognitive dissonance, and practice. Together, Kelly and Lewis explore what organizers can learn from the science of neuroplasticity, the role of rupture and confrontation, and why movements need to focus less on 'changing minds' and more on creating conditions where people can unlearn harmful beliefs and step into collective action.
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Deception of Depression

Depression is insidious. For people suffering from depression, joy is elusive. Depression is not only a general feeling of sadness or being down and out. It is a serious condition and needs attention. People suffering from depression cannot just get over it and move on. They need support, healing, and to discover the epicenter of their pain.
Mental health
UK news
fromwww.bbc.com
1 month ago

Murder accused 'traumatised' by deaf woman's death

A 36-year-old man denies murdering a deaf woman by punching her in the neck after she was ejected from a car, claiming he only pushed her to prevent her re-entry.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Hope in Hostage-Taking and Kidnapping Incidents

Narratives shape how people process trauma and build resilience, while uncertainty from wrongful detention creates profound psychological strain that unfolds silently within families.
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

What Is "Grey Rocking" & When Should You Use It? Experts Share Examples

The idea is simple: make yourself as uninteresting as a grey rock. No emotional reaction, no personal information shared, no visible changes in your demeanor. It's an intentional reduction of emotion. You respond briefly, neutrally, and without giving the other person something to hook onto. It's not about being cold; it's about being boring enough to be safe.
Relationships
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

When Toxic Relationships Feel Good

Toxic relationships feel rewarding due to childhood attachment patterns, love-bombing manipulation, and the intoxicating nature of early-stage infatuation combined with intense attention.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

How did I believe that? A cult survivor looks back at his lost years

A man spent 10 years in a gnosticism-based cult that controlled thoughts, sexuality, and behavior through guilt, false prophecies, and spiritual manipulation before eventually escaping and becoming a psychologist.
World news
fromMail Online
2 months ago

The bone-chilling exorcism cases that PROVE hell is real

An Anglican reverend experienced repeated exorcism events in Tanzania, witnessing violent possession-like phenomena and treating prayer and faith as active authority against spiritual intrusion.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Quintessential Secrets of Psychotherapy: The Trauma of Evil

been ignored, neglected, minimized, or dismissed by mainstream psychology but can no longer be denied or avoided without serious consequences. As C.G. Jung (1961) presciently put it, "Today we need psychology for reasons that involve our very existence. . . . We stand face to face with the terrible question of evil and do not even know what is before us let alone what to pit against it."
Philosophy
California
fromLos Angeles Times
2 months ago

Leader of cult-like group charged with murder claimed God spoke through her, former member says

Leaders of His Way Spirit Led Assemblies face murder charges after allegations of deadly control, prophetic abuse, and the deaths/disappearance of members.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Provoking & Recording in Domestic Abuse: Gaslighting in Action

He would back her into a corner and verbally abuse her for hours. And sometimes Sandra responded in ways that she now regrets-shouting at Gary, throwing things, and slamming doors in frustration. She separated from him to protect herself and the children from Gary's outbursts and coercive control. She was shocked when Gary filed for a protective order, claiming that she had abused him.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Sexual Abuse in Families: Be Brave and Address the Harm

Sexual abuse is never the victim's fault; parents can and must address intrafamilial sexual abuse to break cycles of generational trauma and prevent further harm.
Public health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Do Sexual Abuse Offenders Target the Same Type of Victim?

Child sexual abuse is highly underreported, perpetrators often cross victim categories, and official records substantially underestimate crossover offending.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Language Matters When Talking About Child Sexual Abuse

Words such as 'relationship,' 'affair,' 'involvement,' or 'seeing each other' imply mutuality and consent. In the context of child sexual abuse, these implications are false. A child cannot legally or developmentally consent to sexual activity with an adult. Describing abuse using relational language risks distorting the inherent power imbalance and shifting perceived responsibility away from the adult perpetrator.
Psychology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The art of the late apology: 7 things that happen when someone finally says sorry after 10, 20, or 30 years - and why psychologists say the apology that comes decades late is often the only one that actually changes anything - Silicon Canals

Long-delayed apologies from estranged people can trigger profound emotional release and healing by allowing the nervous system to finally resolve years of stored tension from unresolved conflicts.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Psychology of Religious Exit

Leaving a high-demand religious community dissolves one's interpretive framework, causing profound psychological trauma and pain similar to physical injury.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

When low contact' doesn't mean healing but coercion | Letters

What concerned me most was the lack of acknowledgment of how this trend overlaps with the rise in coercive control. One of the first warning signs of an abusive partner is encouraging someone to isolate from family and friends. How confusing must it be for people to see that behaviour supported in online messaging. Isolation is a major red flag for domestic abuse, and we should be helping young people to recognise that.
Relationships
Psychology
fromMail Online
1 month ago

Conspiracy theorists are probably control freaks, study reveals

People with strong preferences for structured, rule-based thinking are more likely to believe conspiracy theories because these theories provide orderly explanations for chaotic events.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

You Can't Think Your Way Out of a Rupture

Tomás had lived in the city for about 20 years, but he grew up in Venezuela, where family life could be intense, political opinions were spoken openly, and knowing when to speak and when to stay quiet was often a matter of survival rather than preference. Daniela grew up in a very different family. Her parents talked constantly-about politics, values, and what they believed was happening in the world.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why Addiction Treatment Keeps Failing

For decades, addiction treatment in the United States has relied on a familiar explanation when people relapse: recovery is hard, addiction is chronic and setbacks are part of the process. That narrative is often delivered with compassion, but it can obscure a more troubling reality. Many treatment failures are not personal shortcomings. They are predictable outcomes of how recovery is currently designed.
Mental health
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why Religious Harm Isn't Always Recognized as Trauma

Non-affirming religious environments and messages cause lasting shame, anxiety, and self-doubt that can persist into adulthood and impair well-being.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

A Better Way to Respond to Mental Health Crises

Most mental health crises do not justify deadly force; specialized mental-health crisis teams reduce violence and produce safer, better outcomes.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Addiction: Hope, IFS, and Common Treatment Miscalculations

Addictive behaviors function as survival tactics by protective subpersonalities that soothe underlying emotional pain; generalist therapists can use IFS to engage.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Addiction and the Psychology of Deliberate Self-Harm and Suicide

Prioritize psychological explanations—especially self-harming and suicidal mindsets—over brain-disease framing to better understand and treat addictive, self-destructive drug use.
#covert-narcissism
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

People who always say "I'm just tired" when something is clearly wrong have been using this cover for these 9 things most of their life - Silicon Canals

We've all been there: Someone asks if you're okay, and even though your world feels like it's crumbling, you manage a weak smile and say, "I'm just tired." It rolls off the tongue so easily, doesn't it? Like a reflex we've perfected over years of practice. I used to be the queen of this response. During my worst anxiety spirals in my twenties, when deadlines loomed and my chest felt tight,
Mental health
Mental health
fromSecuritymagazine
1 month ago

Implementing Meaningful De-Escalation Training in Your Security Program

De-escalation training reduces aggressive incidents and is a critical risk-mitigation strategy for modern security personnel and organizations.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Retaliation and the Narcissistic Ego

A narcissistic ego prioritizes retaliation and entitlement, driving revenge behaviors, refusing accountability, and undermining healthy relationships and emotional safety.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

My cultural awakening: Losing My Religion by REM helped me escape a doomsday cult

A woman spent two decades in the Children of God cult, enduring strict control, sexual regulation, propaganda, and growing disillusionment as apocalyptic prophecies failed.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Sexual Abuse in Intimate Relationships: Beyond Coercion

Intimate partner sexual abuse commonly uses coercion, entitlement, painful acts, humiliation, and strangulation, eroding victims' safety, self-worth, and well-being.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Therapy, Estrangement, and the Power to Shape Meaning

Therapists' frameworks shape how family experiences are interpreted and can make estrangement feel justified without explicit instruction.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Safe Separation Strategies for the Pink Slip

The method of employee dismissal significantly affects mental health and risk, and threat assessment professionals can mitigate adverse reactions.
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