""I have put a rule into place this year, which I'll express to my family members with the following disclaimer: 'My views will not change; your views will not change. So don't even think about bringing it up if you want a peaceful holiday. If you do once, I will remind you of my rule. If you do it again, I will pack my bag and get an Uber to the airport. You have been warned'""
""I only have two members of my family left, and both are Trump supporters. Over the years, I have made every attempt to get through to them: 'January 6, convicted felon, not the good Christian man you claim he is if you actually read the bible, sexist, racist, anti-LBGTQ,' and the list goes on...but it all falls on deaf, Fox News-filled ears.""
Multiple practical strategies help avoid political conflict at Thanksgiving. Set explicit boundaries before gatherings and communicate consequences for breaking them, including leaving immediately. Use de-escalation techniques such as designating a neutral referee, changing the subject, and employing humor or silence to defuse tension. Prepare exit plans and contingencies like taking an Uber if discussions become hostile. Some people use substances to cope, but that carries risks. Rehearse responses and enforce rules consistently to protect relationships and personal wellbeing. Prioritize safety and choose whether to engage, disengage, or remove oneself from toxic conversations.
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