"At the start of a new relationship, it's normal to feel excitement. As you get to know someone, it seems that the more you talk, the deeper you fall into a feeling of connectedness. But when the affection comes too intensely and too quickly, and feels smothering, it may be love-bombing instead of genuine caring. Feeling "swept off your feet" can actually be a sign that you are experiencing love-bombing."
"In the early stages of love-bombing, you may feel overwhelmed. Your brain is being flooded with dopamine and oxytocin (the "cuddle" hormone). Someone might tell you, "You're my soulmate" and "You are perfect for me" after only a few dates. They overwhelm you with the number of texts they send every day, and early on, they want a commitment, like moving in together, even after just a few dates."
Love-bombing is overwhelming affection, attention, or gifts intended to reel someone into a relationship and gain control. The tactic floods the brain with dopamine and oxytocin, producing intense feelings of connectedness and excitement. Early signs include rapid declarations of soulmate-like sentiments, excessive texting, requests for quick commitments, and grand gestures that feel performative. Such intensity is a red flag rather than genuine love. Trauma bonds formed through manipulation make leaving difficult. Healthy relationships show consistent behavior over time and build emotional intimacy gradually, allowing partners to learn about each other's beliefs, values, and interests.
Read at Psychology Today
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