"Leo has had a micropenis his entire life; he probably could have seen this coming or at least knew that it might happen. I don't think your rejection is going to devastate him if he's been putting himself out there. He has likely met this reaction more than a few times. Before you reject him, consider whether you want to put your name on that list."
"It's OK if you do-you know your needs best, and if you have certain specifications for dick that are non-negotiable, you have every right to pursue them. But this guy is great, intelligent, kind, and has a sense of humor. Sounds like the full package ... minus the package. There are ways of compensating (like strap-ons) and other areas of sex to explore (oral, digital)."
Leo has a micropenis and likely anticipated possible sexual incompatibility. Rejection for that reason probably will not devastate him if he has been dating openly and faced similar reactions. Personal sexual needs are valid, and it is acceptable to have non-negotiable physical preferences. Alternatives exist such as oral sex, digital stimulation, strap-on toys, and other creative sexual practices that can provide satisfaction. Options include being honest and compassionate about incompatibility or using gentler excuses to avoid painful specificity. Honesty framed with kindness and respect is recommended when ending the sexual or romantic relationship.
Read at Slate Magazine
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