"I'm a 46-year-old, bisexual woman who is 10 years older than my partner. I have a ton more experience and kinks than him. I've had to let the kinks go because it's not in his nature. He's also small compared to previous partners. He doesn't have a micro penis, but it's below average. You could say I was a size queen, as I used to only look for partners on the large end of the spectrum before I met him."
"I'm sad about all of this all the time. The sex is OK, and he puts in so much effort, but I miss the feeling of a larger penis. I love to give oral (so does he), but it's a bummer that I can't even use my hands and mouth at the same time. I can't give him the full experience."
"There's plenty of hope in several different directions. Our ability to control our thoughts is pretty limited, and mostly relies on mindfulness or actively thinking about something we want to think about instead of trying to push away the thoughts we hope to avoid. With direct answers to your questions out of the way, I have to"
A 46-year-old bisexual woman is ten years older than her partner and has much more sexual experience and kinks. She previously pursued larger partners and five years of non-monogamy including girlfriends, boyfriends, threesomes, and moresomes. She feels persistent sadness over reduced kink, absence of women, only one threesome in eight years, and a below-average penis size compared with past partners. Sex is described as OK and her partner puts in effort, but she cannot replicate past experiences and often relies on a vibrator. Plenty of hope exists; controlling intrusive sexual thoughts depends on mindfulness and actively redirecting thought rather than suppression.
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