"Perfectionism convinces you there are only two options: Either you're going to do this perfectly, or you're a complete failure. That mindset creates paralysis because you don't know where to start, so you don't start."
"The shame makes starting even harder. Underneath it all is something deeper, which is the desire for control. Perfectionism promises that if you just get everything right, you'll finally feel accepted, safe, and enough."
"100 percent is not possible, and no one lives at 100 percent. Even professional organizers have clutter. Even high performers miss deadlines."
Perfectionism often masquerades as productivity, leading to procrastination and paralysis, particularly for individuals with ADHD. The all-or-nothing mindset creates a false dichotomy where one feels compelled to achieve perfection or face failure. This cognitive distortion results in feelings of shame and inadequacy, making it even harder to begin tasks. The underlying desire for control drives perfectionism, but the reality is that perfection is unattainable. Even high achievers experience setbacks and clutter, highlighting the need for a more balanced approach to tasks and self-acceptance.
Read at Psychology Today
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