Something Bizarre Happens When My Girlfriend Orgasms. She Swears It's "Just a Quirk."

"But keep in mind some of what might be holding her back. The U.S. health system is expensive, getting a diagnosis can take time, insurance companies are often loath to cover appointments and tests for conditions that aren't glaringly obvious, and medical misogyny is well-documented. So, while you may feel like you're making a simple request that your girlfriend see a doctor, there's a reasonable chance that she's going to encounter one or more hurdles-some of which might cost a significant amount of money."

"At the end of the day, we're talking about your girlfriend's health and her body. Whether to pursue a check-up is her decision. You can absolutely be clear with her about how concerned you are, and ask what you could provide in terms of support in order for her to see a medical professional, but you can't force her to go."

Fainting during orgasm can indicate a serious condition such as postural tachycardia syndrome (PoTS). Observing a partner nearly lose consciousness during sex is frightening and may justify medical evaluation. Barriers to seeking care include expense, lengthy diagnostic processes, insurance reluctance, and documented medical misogyny. The choice to pursue medical attention belongs to the person experiencing symptoms. Partners can express concern, offer support, and help facilitate appointments or logistics, but cannot compel medical visits. Emergency services may be appropriate if fainting is prolonged or accompanied by other alarming symptoms.

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