Why is it depressing for people to only want to share their worst moments with the people who are close to them? I have many siblings. I'm close to some of their spouses, others I'm not...not folks who need a front row seat when my life turns into a tragedy.
NTA. The fact that my brother loves & married his wife, means that I need to be civil and loving. It does not mean, in any way, that once they are married, it is automatically in my close circle of trust... I will never have the same relationship with my BIL as I have with my siblings.
I don't understand all the YTA votes. If my mother-in-law and father-in-law had a health matter they wanted to discuss with their kids first, I wouldn't feel excluded. Making it about you (as daughter-in-law is doing) is incredibly self-centred.
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